27 year old Heidi Montag in a bikini. Most men would consider her to be a good-looking woman, if not beautiful. It’s often said that a wife’s first duty to her husband is to maintain her beauty. What does that mean? It means “don’t get fat.” To give you an idea about bodyfat on women, let’s use the following chart.
I have questioned a number of men between the ages of 19 and 50, (N=30) who are all pretty much in agreement that ripped chick #1 isn’t attractive. However, the women in frames #2-4 were all considered very physically attractive. A few of the men considered the woman in frame #5 attractive, but I suspect it’s because the size of her boobs balances out the size of her butt. Proportion has a lot to do with the perception of beauty and a woman with DD-cups can carry some weight on the back end without looking fat, whereas if she was flat-chested she’d be pear-shaped. It’s the same with men- a man with a naturally thick waist has to keep his body-fat low and work on his chest and shoulders in order to get an attractive “V-shape” and even a bit of a spare-tire ruins the effect.
After that, #6 was considered attractive by one guy. The women in the bottom three frames were all universally considered unattractive, with #8 and #9 described as obese, gross and “hideous.”
When asked if any of the women in these frames could be described as a “Big Beautiful Woman” over half stated that there was no way to describe a woman as both big and beautiful. Of the men (uniformly from mid-thirties to mid forties) who could buy into the meme of the BBW, only #6 in the lineup above got tagged as a BBW. The bottom row was simply fat or obese.
The obvious take-away is that men are attracted to beautiful women and anything more than 25% bodyfat on a woman is not consistent with beauty. Granted, this can be stretched out to 30% or maybe a little more for those guys who want some cushion on their woman, but classic beauty like Julianne Hough displays below calls for about 15% to 20% bodyfat.
Warning! This is a gag and barf warning. One of the photos that follows is about a feminist’s view of herself as being beautiful. Those with a weak constitution and small children should leave now. You have been warned.
Feminism is the religion in which beauty is replaced by ugly and ugly is glorified. Thirty four year old Denise Jolly, from Berkeley California (Berkeley- imagine that) started the “Be Beautiful Project” which involved her taking photos of herself, barely dressed, in public places as a way to affirm her beauty and accept herself. Follow that link at your own risk. This is what Ms. Jolly looks like:
Speaking to the Daily Mail, she said ”
‘I’ve been socialized my whole life to not like myself because I’m large,’ Denise explained. ‘I’ve been big my whole life, and the likelihood of me being small is an impossibility.’
So instead of striving to be something she wasn’t, Denise opted to reclaim her body and her self-confidence by sharing photos of herself in her most vulnerable state.
And this, displaying her 311 pound female form in public, is how she went about “reclaiming” her body:
Folks, she’s 34 years old. Just going by her facial structure, she could drop 150 to 170 pounds and make herself attractive, but that would be to admit that beauty and attractiveness are in the eyes of the beholding MEN. According to the chart above, she’s gone past 50% bodyfat. Note also the hideous glasses. The only thing she hasn’t done is cut her hair off and tattoo herself. I suspect if we check back in on her in 5 years, we’ll see short hair and ink.
I think a grossly obese woman should lose the weight instead of simply claiming that she’s beautiful when she obviously isn’t. Feminism is all about no accountability for women. No discipline? Can’t control your impulses? Became grossly obese as a result? You have a choice: either take responsibility for your actions, or lie to yourself. In the following video, watch the change in the smile as the responsible woman loses weight. It’s pretty amazing.